{"id":21261,"date":"2018-01-31T12:57:14","date_gmt":"2018-01-31T19:57:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lastbestnews.com\/site\/?p=21261"},"modified":"2018-01-31T12:57:14","modified_gmt":"2018-01-31T19:57:14","slug":"montanas-first-black-mayor-is-here-to-listen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/montana-mint.com\/lastbestnews\/2018\/01\/montanas-first-black-mayor-is-here-to-listen\/","title":{"rendered":"Montana’s first black mayor is here to listen"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Wilmot\"<\/a>

Thom Bridge\/Helena Independent Record<\/p>

Wilmot Collins, 54, in his Helena home.<\/p><\/div>\n

After a year of deepening political division on race and immigration, the defeat of a white, four-term incumbent by a black former refugee in Helena, Montana\u2019s capital city, continues to draw national and international attention. In November, Wilmot Collins defeated Jim Smith by 338 votes, becoming the state\u2019s first African-American mayor.<\/p>\n

Collins arrived in the U.S. in 1994 after fleeing a brutal civil war in Liberia. He enlisted in the National Guard six months after his arrival, and he will retire later this year.\u00a0<\/strong>He said he decided to run for mayor in part because \u201cpeople think refugees come here looking for a handout, but no, we want to make a difference.\u201d<\/p>\n

Not long ago, a huge crowd gathered at his inaugural celebration to hear his thoughts on the unprecedented victory. But instead, they heard something else entirely.<\/p>\n

Collins surprised his audience by refusing to explain how the race was won or to speculate about what his victory might mean. He did not describe what was broken or how he would fix it. He also didn\u2019t engage in the finger-pointing that\u2019s become typical of so many political exchanges today. Instead, he ceded the stage to his daughter, Jaymie, and his mother, Jamesetta.<\/p>\n

Jaymie, an active member of the U.S. Navy, looked down at Collins from the risers. \u201cYou\u2019re gonna get tired,\u201d she said, adding that resilience will be critical for the job ahead, and that in order to tolerate his critics, he better choose forbearance.<\/p>\n

\"CapreAir_Variable\"<\/a><\/div><\/div>\u201cDad,\u201d she said, in a slightly scolding manner, \u201cthat means you can\u2019t respond to every troll,\u201d an allusion to Collins\u2019 Facebook page, a digital warehouse of racist messages from people he\u2019s never met.Collins\u2019 mother, Jamesetta, spoke next and reminded him where he might find strength. She spoke with a melodic West African accent in the native English of Liberia. \u201cWhen I heard about the election,\u201d she said, looking at her son, \u201cI told him, \u2018God has a purpose for you! And now that he has given you the chance, you must utilize it to the best of your ability.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Taking his cue, Collins traded places with his mother, but his speech was brief: \u201cMy mom always says, \u2018God gave you two ears to listen more and talk less.\u2019 So, I open my hands to you to say I am here to listen.\u201d Collins then stepped out of the spotlight and joined his family.<\/p>\n

Two days later I met the mayor at a local coffee shop to talk more about his approach to his new job. Here\u2019s what he said:<\/p>\n

On forbearance:<\/p>\n

When we first moved here, my home was vandalized, “KKK, go back to Africa.” You know, you can find that anywhere in America, but the reaction this community had \u2014 my neighbors got together and washed the walls down! That\u2019s what my daughter is talking about. Initially, it got to me but, you know, there is always 5 percent you cannot change.<\/em><\/p>\n

On listening:<\/p>\n

When I went on the campaign trail, I told my constituents: “I will listen to you.\u2019”It is rare (to listen) in politics today but that\u2019s not me. These people who elected me. They are my neighbors. They are my community.<\/em><\/p>\n

On gratitude:<\/p>\n

My mother knows the life we lived before the (First Liberian Civil) war. We lived an upper-middle-class life, and then all of that was taken in a matter of days. All of that we lost. I lost two brothers in the war. I was homeless. My wife was homeless. But today, people want to meet with me. It says a lot about the community. It says a lot about the second chance we were begging for, and I always say I will do nothing to damage that second chance.<\/em><\/p>\n

After our conversation concluded, I \u00a0sat there and thought about this unusual elected official. I replayed the advice of his mother and daughter. I revisited the opinions they had shared and considered how they shared those opinions. No doubt, Helena\u2019s new mayor understands the need for fierce policy debates at times. But the advice of his family reminds us of another need \u2014 to voice experiences and values that unite us rather than political platforms that divide us.<\/p>\n

It is worth wondering how the toxic tenor of national political debates might change if more of us practiced forbearance and gratitude. What would happen if, in the words of Montana\u2019s first African-American mayor, we opened our arms to one another and said, \u201cI am here to listen\u201d?<\/p>\n

\"Gabriel<\/a>

Gabriel Furshong<\/p><\/div>\n

Gabriel Furshong is a contributor to Writers on the Range, the opinion service of\u00a0<\/em>High Country News. He writes from Helena, Montana.<\/em><\/p>\n

This story was originally published at\u00a0High Country News<\/a>\u00a0on Jan. 25, 2018.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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